New Moon Masturbation Invitation — Self Love Spell

The new moon in Scorpio is a great time to engage with the themes of endings, beginnings, and transformation.

Scorpio teaches us about the powers of devotion, passion, and the unseen. With the ability to navigate the shadows of our reality, Scorpio energy can be a guiding force as we face the unexpected and unknown.

So, as the planetary energy of Scorpio season holds the Scorpio new moon… Why don’t we just have a nice, passionate orgasm about it?

Orgasms are associated with both death and the creation of life, much like Scorpio and her ruling planets Pluto and Mars. There are so many ways to channel the magic of orgasm and engaging in intentional pleasure can be intensely transformative.

Below is a spell guide to help you channel your inner sexuality and sensuality into intense self-love energy. As you engage with your pleasure as an act of love and devotion to yourself, you are alchemizing shadow energy into personal power.

If you cannot experience orgasms, explore your body and self-touch to find out what a “climax” looks like for you. We all have different bodies and physical abilities, so if any of the actions or movements are not accessible feel free to dive deep into your imagination. Magic takes place in many dimensions, so there is no pressure to perform in any certain way.

Adjust the instructions for your needs and desires. The spell is for you to feel good and love yourself so do it the way you want.

While right now is a great time to do this spell, you can do this ANY time!

Some optional delights to keep handy:

• Oil or lotion
• Sex toys
• A glass of water
• Notebook & Pen

Set the Mood

Put on music that turns you on, dim or color the lighting, and find a place to be alone. Make your bed or couch or tent cozy and comfortable for you. Consider lighting candles or incense.

Ever lock the bathroom door, blast your sex playlist, and fill your bathtub with pillows and blankets just to masturbate? Well, if that’s how you have to do it that’s how you have to do it. It’s time to make time for your pleasure!

If you really want to drown out the screaming kids or chaotic commune, blast music on one device and wear headphones to stream the good shit right into your ears. Reality simply cannot reach you with all those layers.

The important thing is that your environment, no matter what circumstances are around you, is at least somewhat relaxing and soothing for you.

For me, the playlist is nonnegotiable. For others, silence may be what is required. Get creative and get ready to get sexy.

Explore Your Energy

Desire

Fantasize about what you desire with no limits. Meditate with your desires and feel them flowing in the blood of your body. Stay in this place of fantasizing. Think of things that you desire that turn you on sexually and excite you emotionally.

What would you allow yourself to desire if you could have anything you wanted?

Is it a job, a life, or a circumstance? Is it a person, a sexual position, or a feeling?

Pleasure

Lick your lips. Touch yourself slowly and deeply all over your body. Massage every part of you that you can reach as light or as hard as you want. Take breaths so deep that they feel like they are reaching the edges of your skin.

What would you give to your body if you could feel anything you wanted?

Is it touching your thighs or scratching your head? Is it lotion or oil on your skin? Is it taking a sip of water and holding it in your mouth as you rub your nipples?

Orgasm

F-ck yourself like you love yourself. Satisfy your erotic urges with toys or without. Don’t rush. Move your entire body, not just your hands. Legs, hips, head, anything that you can move. Masturbate slowly and intentionally until you can’t anymore.

What if you gave yourself a passionate, body-quaking, mind-blowing orgasm just to feel the pleasure of it?

Do you feel the power of loving yourself? Do you feel good in your body? Do you crave climax?

Post Orgasm

There is nothing wrong with falling right to sleep after an incredible orgasm! However, here are some options to dive deep into the spell work.

Journal

What did you think about at the point of climax? What came up for you while pleasuring yourself? What did you see, feel, or understand through this practice?

Meditate

Lay in the energy of your climax with one hand on your heart and one hand on your genitals.

Create

Paint, sing, or dance!

Didn’t Cum?

That’s okay!

When doing sex magic, the attempts at pleasure often reveal much more than the accomplished pleasure.

What comes up for you emotionally when you try to orgasm and cannot? Do you have any memories or stories associated with that feeling?

Because this new moon invites us to examine our “shadow”, there is value in diving into the reasons behind every emotion we feel during this time. If those feelings are frustration, anger, or inadequacy then we can find ways to alchemize them by simply sitting with them and accepting them as they are.

There is no right way to do a sex spell- It is all information to inform your journey.

Self Love

You don’t have to masturbate to love yourself but I have found that it does help.

When we enter relationships and take on responsibilities, we can start to get into routines that are not conducive to alone time or self-care. I have found gifting myself with orgasms to be the most potent way to catch up on all of that lost “me” time.

You can revisit this spell any time to get a dose of pleasure magic. I have found that by creating rituals around my masturbation, I can experience incredibly intense magical experiences.

You are perfect just the way you are. Don’t forget to remind yourself of that as we journey through this intense energy.

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